Even if they have some separate bank accounts and discretionary spending money, they need to realize they are financially linked to each other and their decisions impact each other and their future child. They need to be on the same page with financial decisions, including taking out any loans (for anything). So they built their life in a way that isn't compatible with completely separate finances right now. They also share costs for housing, food, 5 dogs, etc. This couple is about to have a baby together. It would be terrible for both of them if she ran out and bought a Tesla right now 'with her own money.' And by the same token, it's not a gift because he made a big purchase that will impact the household budget.Д®dit: I'm going to spell it out more because some people still aren't getting it. Even if they maintain separate bank accounts and budgets, their lifestyle means that their financial decisions impact both of them and they need to make big purchases jointly. This is a married couple that cohabitates and is expecting a child together. 'She can buy a Tesla with her own money.' The wife is an asshole but I take two issues with your response: She wasn't thrilled with that answer and called me a cheapskate.ДЄITA for not selling a car purchased for my wife? I told her that I was not going to sell the car as I would drive it and she can drive mine if she wants. The car is also going to be under the insurance. I was devastated as it took time to get the loan approved and to purchase the vehicle. You can sell the car and we can go looking for tesla's this weekend. My friend got a tesla SUV and I took it out to test drive. She handed me the keys and said I am so sorry, I changed my mind. When my wife got home, I surprised her with the car and handed her the keys.

After everything went through and the car was ready to be picked up, I parked it in the outside garage. I found the Jeep Cherokee that I knew she would love in the color that she wanted with low mileage. She has been talking non-stop about getting a Jeep Cherokee. I recently got a promotion at my job and can afford purchasing a used car. We have 5 corgis that we both love very much. Her car is also high in mileage as she travels about 1 hour and 30 minutes to work everyday. My wife found out she is pregnant and has talked about wanting to get a bigger car. I(30M) and my wife(32F) currently own a 2018 Honda Accord and a Honda Civic.

So baby pull me closer 1 hour